William N Ruffen, Jr.

February 29, 1964 - October 09, 2026

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Obituary for William N Ruffen, Jr.

William (Billy) Noel Ruffen, Jr., was born in Boston on February 29, 1964, to William Ruffen, Sr. (deceased) and H. Jean Ruffen (deceased). Known affectionately as both the "second" child and the "baby" due to his leap year birth, Billy embodied warmth and joy throughout his life.

Raised in Roxbury, Billy attended Trotter School elementary, where he took drum lessons, Curly Middle School, Roxbury High School, and Madison Park High School.

He was an altar boy at St. John’s and St. James church in Roxbury and sang in the children’s choir.

He was a Cub and Boy Scout at St. Marks church under Scout Leader Larry Brewington, and his mother was the Den mother. Growing up he enjoyed summers in Scituate with his nana and Papaguts, riding bikes, hanging out with Augusto, visting uncle Nini and aunt and playing in the dump looking for “cool stuff”.

Billy had a passionate love of food—a passion he inherited from his father. Following in his father's footsteps, Billy dedicated his career to the food service industry throughout the 1980s and 1990s. He worked for Aramark at various local institutions, including Simmons University, Boston University, and Wheelock College. He also served as head chef at “Backstage” restaurant part of the Comedy Connection in historic Faneuil Hall.

Due to an injury Billy was unable to continue to work in the vigorous environment of restaurant kitchen, however he continued to cook by taking on periodic jobs through Aramark contacts.

Billy is survived by his sister Dyan Ruffen-Madrey, brothers Michael A. Ruffen and Erick T. Ruffen, sister-in-law Tania Buck-Ruffen, numerous nieces and nephews including Taniqua Ruffen, Michael A Ruffen Jr, Michael Aaron Madrey, several great-nephews and great-nieces, aunt Edna Seay, cousins Sharon, Angie, and David Seay, numerous friends including his best friend David Sealy, and his beloved God-daughter Cerra Cogdell.

Funeral Service Tuesday, October 20, in the Dolan Funeral Home, 1140 Washington Street, DORCHESTER LOWER MILLS, at 11 o'clock. Visiting Hour 10 - 11 am.

Interment Forest Hills Cemetery, Boston.

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20 Oct

Visting Hour

10:00 AM - 11:00 AM

Dolan Funeral Homes and Cremation Services- DORCHESTER LOWER MILLS 1140 Washington Street Dorchester, MA 02124 Get Directions »
20 Oct

Funeral Service

11:00 AM - 12:00 PM

Dolan Funeral Homes and Cremation Services- DORCHESTER LOWER MILLS 1140 Washington Street Dorchester, MA 02124 Get Directions »
20 Oct

Interment

01:00 PM - 01:30 PM

Forest Hills Cemetery 95 Forest Hills Ave Jamaica Plain, MA 02130 Get Directions »
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  • October 20, 2026

    I remember when Power Rangers first came out our grandmother took us to go see the movie and Uncle Billy fell asleep in the back of the theater and had that thing in there rocking with his snoring. lol All you heard was our grandmother trying to wake him up, you will forever be missed Uncle Billy I love you.

  • October 20, 2026

    Love you, Uncle Billy. The holidays were always fun with your stories . You will be missed.

  • October 19, 2026

    I will always love you . I will never forget you or the bond that we had . Forever my Billy❤️❤️.