Condolences

• May 18, 2025

  Jessica

  It's hard to put into words just how much my dad meant to me but I want to honor and celebrate the amazing man he is. Being his only daughter, we shared a bond that was special. My dad made me feel like I was the center of his world, and I'll carry that love with me forever. My dad was diagnosed with a glioblastoma in April of 2024, just a few days before I had my twins. I remember being riddled with fear and anxiety about what was to come for us, but I never truly thought he would be taken away from me so soon. Instead of showing me the anxiety that comes with being diagnosed with a terminal illness, he was calm and always reassured me that we have control over the time we have left together. I'm a daddy's girl and always considered him my hero, but to see the strength courage and grace he had in these final weeks confirmed that my dad is one of the bravest humans I know, my very own real life superhero. He lived a full life, doing the things he loved and giving everything he had to the people he loved. He gave me a childhood that truly felt magical. He celebrated us with over the top enormous gifts full of so much love and thought. His love shaped my life. I remember being younger he would often leave little love notes on the fridge or kitchen table to remind me how awesome he thought I was and to never forget how proud he was of me. I also have about 1,000 voice mails starting with "Hey hun" or "Hey kiddo" and they always ended with "I love you" I will cherish his voice and love forever. I always thought my dad was pretty cool the only thing I never let him live down was picking me up in that embarrassing wheelchair truck. Now I realize how proud I am of him starting his own transportation business. He told me all his stories of being a lifeguard and doing competitive diving and he even took me golfing and to many concerts. He loved to laugh and tell the story of how I fell asleep at the Robert Cray and B.B. King concert. Music was always important to him, his way to express himself and spread his love and joy. Most recently robbie's favorite place to be was surrounded by his grandbabies. Celina was his little bestie and got the same Princess treatment that I was always used to. He had a quiet way of showing up when I needed him, and saying exactly what I needed to hear. I'm going to miss him terribly. We all will. He was an amazing dad who still loved my mom so much, a dependable brother, a loyal friend, and a man who made everyone feel like they really mattered. I will still see him every day - in the way my children laugh, by the songs that come on the radio, and just by being in the house and realizing he has bought me almost everything I own! Dad, thank you for everything. Your love, your lessons, your laughter, and your unwavering support. You were the best father I could have ever hoped for, and I will carry your memory with me every day of my life! We LOVE You! We Miss You! And we will NEVER forget you!!!

• May 17, 2025

  Joanne Brunette

  Thoughts and prayers are with The McAlpine family. We are deeply sorry for your loss. R.I.P. Robby Joanne&Jim Brunette

• May 16, 2025

  Kristen Gannon Chappell

  To Judi, Jessica and all the McAlpines, I am deeply saddened by the loss of our beloved Robbie. He was a dear friend to my Uncle George and was beloved by my Nana Ellie Rogers. You will always be a member of our extended Dorchester family. Your friendship meant so much to all who knew you and we hope you're free from your pain and suffering. Rest in peace. Much love, Kristen Gannon Chappell

• May 15, 2025

  John Vazquez

  Robbie, I will miss you my brother. As we got older we concentrated on our own lives. I wish I knew what you were going through. I would have been there. We chatted on Facebook and I had not a clue. We may not have been blood, but you are my brother! Thank you being my friend, better yet my brother! I love you brother! Lil Johnny and I will miss you with all our heart! "Stay Gold Pony boy!!!"

• May 15, 2025

  Dotti Luddy

  Robbie will be missed by so many especially by Jess and Judi, the McAlpine family and his "Y" family. I will never hear the song " She's a brick house" without thinking of you! Love you friend. Rest easy 🩵 Dotti Luddy

• May 15, 2025

  Nanci Savage-Oxner

  Mcalpine family I'm so sorry for the loss of Robbie. He was always such a kind person. We went to elementary and middle school together. We reconnected on Facebook years later and he made me laugh. He was so proud of you Jessica and your children. Condolences to the entire McAlpine family. Nanci Savage-Oxner

• May 15, 2025

  Christine Snow

  To the family, With our deepest sympathy on the loss of Robbie. There are lots of memories that can be a source of comfort at this difficult time. May you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. With love Christina Dibattista, Chris, & Tim Snow and family.