Paul M. Finerty

November 28, 1933 - September 27, 2024

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Obituary for Paul M. Finerty

Paul M. Finerty, age 90, of Medfield, a loving husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather, died peacefully surrounded by his family on Friday night, September 27, 2024, at Newton-Wellesley Hospital. Married for 55 years, he was predeceased by his beloved wife, Barbara A. Finerty.

Born in Milton on November 28, 1933, he was a dear son of the late Francis J. and Mary Finerty. He was raised in Milton, was a graduate of Milton High School and attended Northeastern University. He was a veteran, having served in the US Army. He was employed for many years by Honeywell Information Systems in computer sales.

Paul married Barbara and lived in Braintree, East Boston, Wilmington, Vernon, CT, and settled in Medfield in 1975. Paul was a very friendly and outgoing man. He was part of a weekly coffee group with his Medfield friends. For over 15 years he organized monthly luncheons with his high school friends, and was instrumental in planning his high school class reunions. He was such a good friend to so many, including current neighbors, past neighbors, former co-workers, his nieces and nephews, and his cousins.

He loved to travel with his wife and family to many places in the United States, as well as to Ireland; however, his favorite vacations were those spent with his family at Mohawk Island, Winnisquam Lake, New Hampshire, and Thompson Lake, Maine.

He was an avid Boston sports fan, especially the Patriots for which he was a season ticket holder for many decades. He was also a fan of his alma mater’s hockey team, the Northeastern University Huskies, and he attended many Frozen Four tournaments with family members.

He was a very charitable man, supporting organizations that benefited less fortunate children, and those that focused on US veterans. He volunteered for many years at the Medfield Food Cupboard.

He is survived by three daughters, Laura F. Kellner and her husband, Richard of Vernon, CT, Susan M. Finerty of Bedford, NH, and Diane T. Firth and her husband, Christopher of Bellingham; a son, Paul M. Finerty, Jr., and his wife, Jacalyn of Medway; eight grandchildren, Maureen, Douglas, Lindsay, Derek, Tristan, Haley, Natalie, and Lyla; three great grandchildren, Elliette, Corbin and Makenna; many loving nieces and nephews, his dear sister-in-law and loving companion, Kay, and his faithful feline companion, Emmy. He was a loving and devoted son and brother. He was predeceased by his late brothers and sisters, Mary, Francis, Patricia, Rita, Richard and Gerald.

Paul’s family would like to extend their deepest heartfelt gratitude to all of the staff who cared for him at Newton-Wellesley Hospital. Many of the staff expressed that he was well loved because of his bravery, his kindness and his appreciation of the care he received.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Our Lady of the Visitation Parish, St. Elizabeth Church, 350 Reedsdale Road, Milton, Friday, October 4 at 11:30 am. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours at Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Ave., EAST MILTON, Thursday, 4-8 PM. Interment Milton Cemetery. Donations may be made in Paul’s memory to the Medfield Food Cupboard, 93 West St, Unit A 10, Medfield, MA 02052 www.MedfieldFoodCupboard.com

Services

3 Oct

Visiting Hours

04:00 PM - 08:00 PM

Dolan Funeral Homes and Cremation Services 460 Granite Avenue Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
4 Oct

Mass of Christian Burial

11:30 AM

Our Lady of the Visitation Parish (Saint Elizabeth Church) 350 Reedsdale Road Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
4 Oct

Interment

12:45 PM

Milton Cemetery 211 Centre Street Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
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  • October 18, 2024

    Paul and Barbara sat behind me at the patriots game in the old stadium. I always enjoyed our conversations together. We stayed in touch over the years even after he stopped attending the games. We had started meeting for breakfast in Woonsocket RI which was half way from my house in Putnam CT and his home. There were four of us that last met in April to have a pre draft meeting. To all his family our condolences as Paul was a great friend and will be missed. Bernie Gilbert, Matt Gilbert and Joe Michaud

  • October 04, 2024

    Paul was a wonderful man-sweet, soft spoken, knowledgeable and giving. We served on the board of the Medfield Food Cupboard together for years, and since moving away, I've thought of him often. It was so good to see him this past Christmas season at a get together of us Food Cupboard old-timers. So many shared memories! And he and I bonded over my new town in NH -he had many stories of taking the train up to Sunapee and going through Warner. His generous spirit, warm friendship and vibrant personality will be missed by all of us who knew and volunteered with him. Sincere condolences to the family he dearly loved. Martha Sherman

  • October 03, 2024

    I did not know Paul well, but had the pleasure of his company at a family reunion and when I visited him at his home many years ago. I found him to be a kind and loving person. I am the daughter of Norma (Finerty) Pellegrini and Mario Pellegrini. My sincere condolences to his family. May he rest in peace. Norma Brandt

  • October 03, 2024

    Dear family, I am so sorry for your loss. I got to know Paul working at the Food Cupboard over the course of many years. What a wonderful man; so kind-hearted, thoughtful and fun. He will be missed tremendously. Carol Mills

  • October 03, 2024

    My wife and I worked with Paul for many years at the Medfield Food Cupboard as "Luggers". We carried bins of food from the basement of the church, where the MFC used to be, up to the main floor where the distributions were held. We have many great memories of those years. He was such a generous man and good spirit. Our deepest condolences to his family and friends. Cindy and Shawn Collins

  • October 02, 2024

    I'm so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I met Paul while working at the Medfield Food Cupboard 10 years ago. Even at the age of 80, Paul cheerily "lugged" boxes of food from the basement up to the main floor where the food would be distributed to needy families. Paul was a most interesting, selfless conversationalist who cared about others. We shared many stories about our kids, cars, and whatever else was the topic du jour. Sincere condolences to Paul's extended family. - John P.

  • October 02, 2024

    Deepest condolences on your loss. I only met Paul a couple of times years ago but he was obviously an impressive man and a great guy. I did not know that he was a fellow NU alum. With great sympathy, Al Pellegrini (son of Norma and Mario)

  • October 01, 2024

    Paul and a few others from his Milton high graduating class visited my mother's house in Sagamore Bch for lunch each summer over the past 6 years since in my father passed to spend time with my mother and reminisce about the good old days. Paul was a good childhood friend of my dad's and he was part of a tight nit group from Milton going back to the 1930's. It was a pleasure getting to know Paul during those visits. We are saddened to learn of his passing this morning and will attend St. Elizabeth's mass to honor Paul's legacy.

  • October 01, 2024

    Sir, Mr Finerty, & family as a fellow service member, Im USMC combat veteran, Id like to say thank you for your years of self sacrifice and service in the Army. Putting the needs of our country ahead of your own, devotion to country , community & family is admirable. You were a friend & neighbor to my grandfather. To the Finerty family may I extend my condolences , on the passing of Paul. Milton lost a great one. With sympathy, Lance Corporal Nicholas Levasseur

  • October 01, 2024

    Easter! What a time to be a young girl, but especially at Aunty Babs and Uncle Paul's. From the decor, to the feast, to (most importantly) the Easter Egg Hunt. I cherish my memories at Uncle Paul's as a young girl, holding cousin Sammy's hand tight as we raced around the property hunting for eggs, hunting for the Golden Egg! Every Easter for my own son and cousins, I setup our own hunt - and I remember Uncle Paul and Aunty Babs, and it warms my heart.

  • October 01, 2024

    Dear Finerty family, very sorry for your loss. My father Arthur Clasby & his 7 brothers and sisters were friends and neighbors of Paul growing up together in Milton . Of the eight siblings two remain. Irene Clasby lives in NH , My Aunt Dorothy, lives in MD both in their 80s, send their condolences as do I. Let the happy memories bring you comfort during this sad time and take comfort knowing Paul is in the arms of our Lord. With Deepest Sympathy, Milton neighbor, Judy Clasby

  • September 30, 2024

    Dad, I will miss you forever!! You were so brave through everything you went through in just these few short months. You fought hard to get back to home in July, we were so proud of the work you did to get there. We certainly didn't expect the turn of events in the last few weeks. I am glad you are with Mom and your immediate and extended family. I am hoping it is peaceful for you there but also that there was a huge celebration when the last of the Francis Finerty's arrived!! Love, Susan

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