Paul J. Kingston

April 25, 1936 - December 20, 2025

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Obituary for Paul J. Kingston

Paul J. Kingston, of Milton, died peacefully at home with his daughters by his side, December 20,2025.

Beloved husband of the late Claire A. Kingston with whom he shared almost 55 years of marriage. Loving father of Maureen C. Flanagan and her late husband, Michael P. Flanagan, the late Paula V. Lane and her husband Thomas P. Lane Jr., Ann M. McDonough and her husband, Brian P. McDonough, all of Milton. Devoted and loving grandfather of Thomas K. Flanagan and his partner Scott Kitson, Thomas P. Lane III and his wife Sarah A. Barrese, Conor P. Lane and his wife Natalie L. Pelletier, Victoria M. Lane, Patrick J. McDonough and Kevin P. McDonough. Adoring great-grandfather of Norah Claire Lane. Brother of the late Kathleen M. Lawlor and Brian M. Kingston. Paul is also survived by many nieces and nephews.

Paul was a proud graduate of St. Gregory’s Grammar School, Boston College High School, Boston College and Georgetown Law School. Paul enjoyed a lengthy and distinguished law practice as founder and managing partner of his own firm, Kingston and Hodnett, specializing in labor, municipal and employment law.

Paul and his wife, Claire, enjoyed time in El Toro, California while Paul was stationed there as an officer in the Marine Corps, followed by Washington, DC while Paul attended Georgetown Law School. Upon graduation, Paul and Claire returned to Massachusetts initially residing in Scituate, MA, before ultimately making their home in Milton, MA. With their family and friends, Paul and Claire enjoyed summers in Brewster, MA and winters in Estero, FL.

Always guided and inspired by his Catholic faith formed in the Jesuit tradition, Paul believed in giving back to others. He and Claire were devoted to many different charities, organizations and schools including Catholic Charities, Carney Hospital, the Caritas Community and the Labor Guild. One of Paul’s favorite institutions was his beloved alma mater, BC High. Paul was so proud to have all five grandsons attend and graduate from BC High.

In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Paul may be made to Boston College High School,150 Morrissey Blvd, Boston, MA 02125 or visit www.bchigh.edu/give

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Our Lady of the Visitation Parish, Saint Elizabeth Church, 350 Reedsdale Road, Milton, Tuesday December 30 at 11:30 AM. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours at Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Avenue, EAST MILTON SQUARE, Monday 3:00 - 7:00 pm. Interment Milton Cemetery.

Services

29 Dec

Visiting Hours

03:00 PM - 07:00 PM

Dolan Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - EAST MILTON SQUARE 460 Granite Avenue Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
30 Dec

Mass of Christian Burial

11:30 AM - 12:30 PM

Our Lady of the Visitation Parish (Saint Elizabeth Church) 350 Reedsdale Road Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
30 Dec

Interment

12:45 PM - 01:00 PM

Milton Cemetery 211 Centre Street Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
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  • January 05, 2026

    Jeff Marr

    I'm so sorry to learn of the passing of Paul. He was a wonderful man and had a wonderful family. Always pleasant to see and a true gentleman. God bless him as he surely is in the hands of god.

  • December 30, 2025

    Martin Bracken

    So sorry to hear of the passing of Paul, a kind gentleman always with a smile on his face. I enjoyed his many visits to County Cork. May he rest in peace Martin Bracken

  • December 30, 2025

    Dolores and Timothy Crowley - Co Cork

    To his cousins in Cork, Paul Kingston was, a gentleman, great company and a proud Irish American. We have wonderful memories of Paul and Claire's visits to Ireland and our visits to Milton over the years. Dolores & Timothy Crowley, Castleview, Cork. The photographs are of Paul's trip to County Cork in October 2015. Paul, may the sod of Milton Cemetery rest lightly upon you.

  • December 30, 2025

    Mary Bracken

    Sincere sympathy to all the family on Paul's passing.He was a true gentleman to his fingertips. The Bracken Family ,Cork IRL.

  • December 29, 2025

    Mary Murphy

    What a lovely man. Used to come into The Fruit Center with Christine to buy his supply of Haagen-diaz ice cream pops which he ate daily! He was a bit of a rogue and tease us girls but all of us had time for his devilish ways! May he rest in peace!

  • December 29, 2025

    Katie McBride

    Dear Maureen, dear Ann, A wonderful dad, a wonderful being. I am sad with you and sending all my love and heartaching comfort and gratitude to both of you for sharing your dad, mom and Paula with me. How incredibly lucky I was that through Paula, Claire, and Paul so often welcomed me—"Katie from Cleveland"—into their home and your family. Your dad was so full of genuine love and interest in what we were up to, in to, figuring out. Never any judgment, just encouragement, joy, wonder and praise. I can hear him singing now 'Ka ka Katie ...' Much Love, Katie McBride Dear Maureen, dear Ann, A wonderful dad, a wonderful being. I am sad with you and sending all my love and heartaching comfort and gratitude to both of you for sharing your dad, mom and Paula with me. How incredibly lucky I was that through Paula, Claire, and Paul so often welcomed me—"Katie from Cleveland"—into their home and your family. Your dad was so full of genuine love and interest in what we were up to, in to, figuring out. Never any judgment, just encouragement, joy, wonder and praise. I can hear him singing now 'Ka ka Katie ...' Much Love, Katie McBride

  • December 29, 2025

    Jerry/Mary Connelly

    Sincere condolences to all the Kingston family and extended families, on the sad passing of Paul.... R.I.P. Prayers. 🙏🙏🙏.

  • December 28, 2025

    James G. Mullen, Jr.

    Dear Kingston Family, My sympathy to your family on the death of Paul. When you serve in town government you meet many people. Paul Kingston was always a gentleman. Thank You Paul and as they say "Gods Speed!" Sincerely, James G.Mullen, Jr.

  • December 27, 2025

    Eileen McMahon

    I have wonderful memories of Paul. When I was a teenager he gave me his old car - my first one! When I was exploring the possibility of a law career he invited me in to see him arguing a court case and another time he helped me navigate a work contract. Paul and Claire made each other sparkle - it must have been a beautiful reunion when he walked into heaven! My condolences to family and friends

  • December 27, 2025

    Eileen McMahon

    God's speed to a dearest friend. UT Requisras in Pace. Mary McMahon and Ed McGowan

  • December 27, 2025

    Eileen McMahon

    I have wonderful memeories of Paul. When I was a teenager he gave me his old car - my first one! When I was exploring the possibility of a law career he invited me in to see him arguing a court case and another time he helped me navigate a work contract. Paul and Claire made each other sparkle - it must have been a beautiful reunion when he walked into heaven! My condolances to family and friends

  • December 27, 2025

    MARY LOU DOYLE

    Dear Maureen Tom sorry so see of your father passing. I always enjoyed meeting your mother and father seeing them at BC and family gatherings they were so very kind. I know you will miss your next store neighbor. Thinking of you all will remember you all in prayers. Nary Lou Doyle

  • December 27, 2025

    Bill Curtis

    I only first met Paul about 3 years ago through the B. C. High "Elders" luncheon group. I am privileged to have known him. As I enjoy a drop of the D. E. W. this afternoon I will raise my glass to Paul's memory and pray that he rests in Eternal Peace. Bill Curtis B. C. H. '58🦅

  • December 27, 2025

    Jim Considine, Charlestown

    Sincere thanks for the devoted military service you gave to the people of this nation. May you rest in peace.

  • December 27, 2025

    Helen & Maurice Whelton

    Helen & Maurice Whelton & Family Grancore North Clonakilty Our deepest sympathies to you all at this sad time. May Paul rest in peace.

  • December 26, 2025

    Maggie Faretra

    My deepest sympathy to Ann and family. Paul was a very dear man to know. Thank you for giving me the honor to know and work with your Dad in keeping his strength and endurance up in training. I learned more from him than he ever learned from my teaching/training with him. A gentle man and a teacher in his own right. May he rest in eternal peace and leave you peace in your heart forever. Love and prayers, Maggie Faretra

  • December 26, 2025

    Tom Cunnally

    Paul + I were Double Eagles and former Marines. My condolences to Paul's family and friends. He will be missed, especially by his BC High'53 Classmates. Tom Cunnally

  • December 23, 2025

    Niamh Crowley

    My deepest sympathies to all our Kingston cousins, sending love from West Cork, Ireland. Paul was always a gentleman, we loved visiting you all on our trips to Boston. I'll fondly remember all the times Paul asked me to sing, as he accompanied on piano. He will be sorely missed by all of us here in Clonakilty ❤️ Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam

  • December 23, 2025

    Chris Boyle

    I had the pleasure of travelling with Paul and his dear friend, Joe Corcoran - what times we had! Paul had a brilliant mind, a kind heart, and a strong love of laughter. His wit and companionship were second to none. My condolences to his wonderful family, whom he truly loved. Best, Chris Boyle

  • December 22, 2025

    Siobhan O Mahony

    Paul was a pleasure to care for and had a great sense of humor, a deep love for all his family and a gentle nature. May he rest in peace in heaven with loved ones. God Bless