Condolences

• October 15, 2025

  ELENA THOMSON

  MISS RYNER WAS MY NEIGHBOR FOR 20 YEARS. SHE WAS A KIND AND LOVELY LADY. HER STYLE WAS LEGENDARY AND HER INDOOR GARDEN WAS AMAZING SHE WILL ABSOLUTELY BE MISSED. ENJOY YOUR CROWN QUEEN.

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Bernice Ryner: My Sista, My Buddy, My Friend, "My Bunny" I first knew of her and met her many years ago, as my late Uncle George was born in Montserrat like Sister Bernice. I got to know Sister Bernice better at Elliot Congregational Church. I found her to be grounded in loving God, Jesus Christ, and keeping the faith. She was serious about worship! Sista Bernice loved people. She had a dislike for "nonsense" of any kind! She was generous in serving during hospitality. She showered Elliot churchgoers and others of all ages with loving gifts of food, desserts, special drinks, toiletries, encouragement, and love. Her generosity was greatly appreciated! I still have some scented hand wipes of lavender, plus goat milk cream, body wash, and lotion. I'll forever remember Sister Bernice when I put on lavender and cleanse with goat milk. I never had a chance to run out of these toiletries because Sista was constantly showering me with these products every few months. It was surprising how she knew when my products were getting low. Bernice had a corny sense of humor! She often loved to laugh, and in doing so caused you to laugh. When "nonsense" pushed Sista's buttons, she would go into a tirade. To calm her down, I would say, "Ok, Bunny!" A smile would emerge with a snicker. "Nubian Queen Bernice" was a sharp dresser. She knew it—and she flaunted it! However, Sista dressed for God and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Her dresses, skirts, and tops were stunning; her hats and shoes dazzling; her coats, jackets, scarves, and accessories impeccable. She wore her A++ best for worshiping each and every Sunday. She was stately. She was elegant. She was a queen. I miss you, friend! I thank God for sharing Sister Bernice. Though I am a deacon and my role is to check on others, truthfully, my Sister called and checked on me more—and I loved her for that. She often stated, "Deacons need checking on too." Rest in peace. You'll always remain in my heart. Deacon/Sister Joyce Carroll

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  A Graceful Neighbor Remembered Ms. Bernice was a truly classy lady—not merely because of her fabulous wardrobe, but because of the grace and kindness she showed toward others. She was my neighbor for many years, and although we were often unaware of the noise we made over her head, she remained patient and understanding. When disturbed, she let you know how she felt, yet never in a spiteful way. I always admired her beautiful indoor garden—her personal oasis, a peaceful corner of nature that she lovingly nurtured. I will always remember her with affection and gratitude. I am certain she is now tending a heavenly garden with Jesus and the angels. I could say much more, but I will leave it here in her honor. Deacon Thompson Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  A Phenomenal Friend and Blessing in Our Lives Bernice a phenomenal an awesome friend I will truly miss her it was a blessing just knowing her love always Deacon Nicholls Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Condolences to the family of Sister Bernice Gwendolyn Ryner. Sister Ryner and I worshiped together at Eliot Congregational Church, where she was a dedicated and faithful member. I often complimented her on her elegant sense of style; especially the beautiful hats she wore. Over time, we became friends. Sister Ryner began inviting me to her home for New Year's dinner along with other members of the church. We soon developed a weekly phone routine, and we also enjoyed outings to Legacy Place Mall to share a meal and good conversation. May God's richest blessings be with you during this time of loss. Deacon Louise T Brice Eliot Congregational Church

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Reflections on the Beauty of Sister Bernice Gwendolyn Ryner I shall always be grateful for the kindness and love Sister Bernice displayed to my dear mother, Clementine Scott each and every Sunday as they worshipped together at Eliot Congregational Church. Sister Bernice had a beautiful way of looking out for my mom, paying special attention to her during the "Greet Your Neighbor" part of the worship service as well as sharing stories of her travels to England. Sister Bernice was beautiful both inside and outside in her distinct attire. My mom loved her. May she now rest in peace in God's care. Much Love Sister Barbara Fields Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  In Loving Memory of Ms. Bernice Ryner Ms. Bernice was a beautiful lady who loved the Lord. She shared a close friendship with my beloved late mother-in-law, Shirley Burke. My family extends our heartfelt condolences and prayers to her family during this time. Rest in peace, Ms. Bernice. With love. Janice Henderson-Burke and Family Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  My Girl, My Friend: Honoring Bernice Ryner: My Girl, My Friend My condolences to the family of Bernice Ryner always liked to laugh, tell jokes and be happy. Rest in peace "My Girl". Leana Chestnut & daughters Rammitata & Jones Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Remembering Bernice: Thoughtful, Generous, and Kind Bernice always thoughtfully picked up cosmetic items and would bring them to me as a surprise! Sometimes, when she made treats at home, she would share those with me as well. She was an excellent cook and often invited me to her home. My sister-in-law, Charlotte, and I had the pleasure of visiting her when she lived by herself. Bernice also baked for the church on many occasions, always contributing with love and care. She never failed to give me a kind phone call and was always polite and attentive. I will never forget how she always found me before leaving church. Mrs. Annie Corrine Johnson Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Celebrating the Life of Ms. Bernice: Elegant, Warm, and Beloved I would like to extend my heartfelt condolences and prayers to the family of Ms. Bernice, affectionately known as Ms. Montserrat. Ms. Bernice was truly one of a kind; always elegant, always stylish, and always full of warmth. She had a remarkable way of making everyone feel welcome and cared for, especially during our fellowship coffee hour. I always looked forward to seeing her smiling face and hearing her kind words whenever I came to church. Her presence brought joy and comfort to so many of us, and she will be deeply missed. Rest in peace, Ms. Bernice. You will always be remembered with love. Lavern Blake Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Honoring Bernice: From Work to Community I met Bernice when we worked at Liberty Mutual Insurance Co. Outside of work we realized we knew people in common from her home (Montserrat). I learned that she loved to shop and the clothes she bought were fabulous, just like her. She was friendly with the sales people. They would hold items for her. Things they knew she liked. She was generous with her family, sending clothes back home. After retirement Bernice worked at the Dorchester farmers market. Bernice was generous there too. I will miss seeing her. Janice Bacon Colleague: Liberty Mutual Insurance Co.

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  In Loving Memory of Bernice Ryner: A Life of Faith and Kindness This world is truly a better place because of the life you lived and the example you set. Bernice, your strong belief in God, your unwavering faith and kindness were an inspiration to all of us who had the blessing of knowing you. You walked this earth with elegance, grace, compassion, and purpose, touching lives in ways both big and small. Your warm smile, your caring ways, and your genuine love and kindness will be deeply missed. You had a way of making people feel seen and loved and valued, and those gifts are something that will remain with us always. While our hearts ache with your absence, I take comfort in knowing that you are now at peace, resting in the bosom of your Savior. Enjoy the crown you have so faithfully earned. To Bernice's beloved family: please know that you are very much in my prayers. I cannot find the words to take away the weight of your sorrow, but I pray that God's love and comfort will surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. May the beautiful memories you hold bring you peace, and may you feel her love living on in your hearts. Until we meet again, Bernice, rest well, my dear friend. Vercil Edwards, Montserrat BWI [Friend]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Remembering Bernice: A Life of Cheer and Kindness I would like to extend my most sincere condolences to the family of the late Ms. Bernice Ryner formerly of Corkhill Village, Montserrat.Words cannot even begin to describe how I feel at her loss. I will, however, hold on to the many memories that I have of her especially in the way she dressed and walked. Her journey has inspired us to live with a purpose to cherish our loved ones and to carry forward the legacy of kindness. I will miss her dearly and pray that God's willing we will meet again in the Heavenly realm. With cherished Memories Veronica A. (Nan) Hickson, Montserrat, BWI [Friend]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  A Life of Friendship and Kindness I am happy to call Bernice my friend, and I was saddened to hear of her illness and, subsequently, her passing. I got to know Bernice many years ago when she was the soulmate of one of my co-workers in the Health Department in Montserrat. She later emigrated to the United States. When I visited Boston for the first time in the early seventies, I reconnected with Bernice, and I must say that she helped to make my holiday an enjoyable experience. She introduced me to some of her friends as well as some of her co-workers, so I was invited or taken to several functions. Bernice had a cheerful and bubbly personality and was fun to be around. She was an extremely kind person, and I myself have been a beneficiary of her kindness. If she knew someone coming to Montserrat, she would surprise me with a gift and then call me some time later to ask if I had received it. It is said, "To have a good friend is one of the highest delights of life". It goes on to say, "There is no man so poor that he is not rich if he has a friend; and there is no man so rich that he is not poor without a friend." I would say Bernice was rich because she had many friends. I was blessed to be one of them. My condolences to her surviving siblings, other family members, and friends. May her soul rest in eternal peace. Major Joseph Lynch, Montserrat, BWI [Friend]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  #1 and #2: A Friendship to Remember We have had the privilege of knowing Bernice for many years. Our friendship began at Eliot Congregational Church of Roxbury, where we first met her through her niece, Sandra Greenaway-Dougal. From that moment, a bond was formed that grew stronger over the years. It was our joy to share life with Bernice in simple but meaningful ways. We often gave her rides to and from church, or wherever else she needed to go. We cooked and exchanged meals with her, enjoying the fellowship that always came with laughter, stories, and love. One of the fondest memories that will forever stay with us is when Bernice gave us nicknames that made us laugh every time. She would call me, Rosemarie #1, but when she met my mother Olive, she immediately switched and called her #1 instead leaving me to be #2. From then on, that's who we were to her: #1 and #2. Whenever we asked why, she would just smile mysteriously and never explain. It became an inside joke that brought us so much joy. Over the years through conversations with my mother they shared their favorite songs and what they each wanted at their funeral. Bernice's songs were Pass Me Not Or Gentle Savior and Amazing Grace which we shared with her niece Sandra. Our last visit with Bernice at the nursing home will always be especially cherished. We walked in and announced, "#1 and #2 are here!" Her eyes lit up so brightly, and though words were hard to come by, her smile said everything. Throughout the visit, her eyes followed us, full of joy and recognition. That moment was a beautiful reminder of the special connection we shared with her. Bernice was also loved by our entire family; Leroy, Tiffany, and Monique all knew her and shared in the warmth of her presence. We will deeply miss our dear friend, but we take comfort in knowing she is now at peace. Rest in peace, Bernice - you will forever live on in our hearts. With love, #1 and #2 Olive Palmer-Hanson #1 [Mother] & Rosemarie Symes #2 [Daughter] [Friends]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  I met Bernice years ago at a bus stop. We were both waiting for the bus home—she was coming from work, and I was coming from class. At the time, we both lived in Mattapan. We greeted each other, and that simple hello was the beginning of a lasting friendship. Bernice, always a talker, told me she was from the island of Montserrat and had moved from Canada to live with her brother Charles Greenaway and his wife Sarah in Boston. That ride home felt as though we had known each other forever. Soon after, I invited Bernice to my home, which became the start of a beautiful friendship. Over the years, she became like family. Bernice spent every Thanksgiving and holiday with us, and my children came to love her as "Auntie Bernice." She also joined us on weekends at Martha's Vineyard, where she quickly made herself at home. She had her own room, felt completely comfortable, and loved being part of the Vineyard community. She even became a member of the Polar Bears, a group of women who swam every morning at Inkwell Beach. Burnice adored the island—she walked its streets daily, met countless people, and soon became known and loved by many. One evening, I remember lying in my room when I suddenly heard Bernice laughing loudly in hers. She called out with pure joy, "I'm in a book! I'm in a book!" Rushing to see what she meant, I discovered that she had been interviewed by a writer about Martha's Vineyard. Her name appeared in a published book about the island, and it was one of the happiest moments of her life. Bernice was so familiar with the Vineyard that she often invited friends to visit and would give them personal tours of the island she loved so dearly. She was a true trooper—generous, joyful, and full of life. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. "Whom have I in heaven but thee? And there is none upon earth that I desire besides thee. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." —Psalm 73:25–26 Rest in peace, my dear friend, until we meet again. For we know that to be absent from the body is to be present with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Sleep well, Bernice, sleep well. Myrna Allston, Massachusetts, USA [Friend]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  "A Life of Style, Spirit, and Strength" Auntie Bernice was a true original - she didn't just wear fashion she lived it. Every outfit had a story and every detail reflected her spirit, she had the rare gift of turning everyday into a runway and I always marveled at her grace and confidence which lit up every room. She taught me that style is more than a way of life...it's a way of being. She along with so many of the strong, forward thinking women in my life influenced my love for the finer things in life such as fashion, the arts, interior design, fine dining and traveling. She would always tell me to work hard so you can always have your own (in her exact words - so you too can have a fur coat one day like me...LOL!). As a child she was larger than life and the true definition of FABULOUS! Although she is no longer with us, her energy and spirit will forever remain timeless. Today we celebrate her life, her legacy, and her unforgettable style. Love Stephanie Brown [Niece]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  A Lasting Legacy of Love: Remembering Aunty Bernice Aunty Bernice has left an indelible impression on my heart. I fondly remember writing her letters as a little boy—she always took the time to make me feel seen, valued, and special. Her kindness, grace, and joyful spirit touched everyone around her and will remain with me always. May her joy continue to shine as her lasting legacy. Rest in eternal peace, dear Aunty Bernice, reunited with my beloved mother—your sister in God's everlasting embrace. Colin Labadie, United Kingdom [Nephew]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  A Life in Full Bloom: Remembering Aunt Bernice Bernice Gwendolyn Ryner was known as Auntie B or Aunt Bernice to many, and Bonnie to those who knew her best. She was a devoted daughter, a loving sister, a cherished aunt, and truly a loyal friend. She was the biggest supporter, always cheering you on and celebrating your successes. A vibrant lady, Bernice's presence was felt in her colorful attire, her infectious laughter, and the joy she brought into every room. Her unconventional yet unwavering love for her family was undeniable, matched only by her deep devotion to friends from all around the world. Yes, we are saying goodbye—but we do so without tears, knowing that God alone sees and that Bernice is no longer in pain. Though we will miss her deeply and grieve her absence, we smile because she lived a beautiful, love-filled life. Watch as the garden blooms and flourishes, a reflection of the life she nurtured and the love she shared. Now, she rests peacefully with the Creator and those who went before her. Goodbye, Aunt Bernice. You will forever remain in our hearts. Jean Joseph McLean & Family, United Kingdom [Niece]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  "In Loving Memory of My Million-Dollar Aunt" To my friends at work, you were known as "The Million-Dollar Aunt." I gave you that title not because of wealth, but because of your elegance and style. Those who knew you understood; you could dress. Your hats were a force not to be reckoned with, and your scarves and coats always made a statement. Let's just say, you dressed and impressed. I always had to remember not to ring the doorbell whenever I visited, because it would startle you; and besides, I had my keys. "Yes, ma'am!" I would say, explaining that it was just something I did out of respect. You'd then ask me what I brought for you, followed by a full report of the things that were "broken" around the house. From finding contacts in WhatsApp to pulling out the silver strip from a battery or solar-operated gadget; you were convinced they were all broken! We would laugh and then take our conversation out to your beautiful garden, where the tall sunflower plants stood like guardians, sometimes hiding the delicate roses and other blooms behind them. Then, in what felt like the blink of an eye, those long, joyful conversations; inside the house and out front in the garden; were interrupted by illness. I rang the doorbell that day, but you didn't come downstairs to remind me that I had my keys. You held on as long as you could in your new residence, but it was heartbreaking to see you that way. My once vibrant aunt was no longer expressing her thoughts or sharing her warmth. Now, as you would always say to me at the end of my visits, "So long, Baba. So long, Babe." You never said goodbye. So, on behalf of the Ryner family, "So long, dear aunt and sister". Derlin [Baba] & Family [Niece]

• October 15, 2025

  Sandra Dougal

  Tribute to Aunt Bernice As the eldest cousin among the children of the Ryner family, I had the privilege of being the first nephew/niece of Bernice G. Ryner, affectionately referred by me and all the cousins following me as Aunty Bernice or Aunt Bernice. I truly cannot remember the early years because she was away for a very long time or left shortly after my birth. I do recall the many trips when she returned home to visit because it was usually around Christmas time and she would bring the Christmas spirit with her. The house would smell very good for the duration of her visit because she had a love for beautiful fragrances which included soaps, lotions and perfumes that she would bring with her. One of the trips that has always stuck with me was when she, along with other members of the family, returned home for the premature death and funeral of her father and our grandfather Mr. Thomas Ryner. Many people gathered, much like a summit, to mourn the loss of 'Mas' Thomas Ryner just as we are today mourning the loss of Aunt Bernice. We shared birthdates that were close to each other. She was the first of the month and I was the second of the very same month so for many years I could expect a card and a call from her and likewise from me to her. She was a woman who loved elegance and was quite charming. She stood out at all times at events and if there was a well-dressed woman there with a very large hat, large sun shades and high heeled shoes it was most likely our aunt. She was known for her elegant sense of style and friends would tell me sometimes that they saw my "Fabulous" Aunt. She always seemed to command the attention in a room or setting. This past year and some months have been nothing like her previous life but she fought hard to stay alive but God saw it best to take her out of her pain and misery. She will be missed but she has gone on to a better place where there is no more pain. As we bid farewell to Aunt Bernice let us cherish the good moments that we all had with her, she may no longer be with us in body but her spirit will live on forever in our hearts. May She Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory. Joe Joel Ryner Silcott, Massachusetts, USA [Nephew]

• September 30, 2025

  Deacon Louise T. Brice

  Condolences to The family of Sister Bernice Gwendolyn Ryner. Sister Ryner and I Worshipped at the Eliot Congregational Church. Sister Ryner were a dedicated member. I would comment to her on her sense of style of dressed especially the Hats she wore. We became friends. Sister Ryner started inviting me to her house for New Year's Dinner along with other members of the Church. We began talking by phone weekly. We also would go to The Legacy Place Mall to eat and just get out to talk. May God's Riches Blessings be with you in this time of loss. Deacon Louise T. Brice

• September 29, 2025

  Linda Wheeler

  There was a time when Mother Berniece found out how much I loved Ginger Beer. She went home and made me a home made batch and brought it to me one Sunday. I was thrilled and grateful to receive it. When I finished it I brouht her back the jar and expressed my gratitude and gave it back to her. Mother Bernice eventually brought me another batch. Every so often shd would bring md a batch and it became a happeing. I loved ig so much and she wScalways excited to bring it to me. You can't tell me that this was not an expression of love on her part. I felt so special and I always appreciated her for this expression of love. I will never forget her♥️♥️♥️. From Deacon Linda Wheeler. RIP Mother Berniece.

• September 28, 2025

  Vallerie Hartgrove

  My condolences to the family of Bernice Ryner. Bernice lived in the same house on Dale St. as we lived in. We also worshipped at Eliot Congregational together where she was a devoted member. She would always contribute to the church school lunches and on special occasion make her peas and rice for them. Once we moved I couldn't wait to see her on Sundays to see what she had on and what hat she would wear. Bernice was a classy dresser. She loved my family especially my granddaughters and would always bring them a gift or something back when she went away. Bernice always referred to my other half as Papa two because his brother was Papa one. We kept in contact by phone and when she got sick I went to visit her with Papa one at Care One in Randolph where we prayed for her on numerous occasions. We loved you but God loves you best. Rest In Peace my friend. Vallerie and Family