Nathan "Nate" Geoffrey Ingham

December 09, 1984 - January 08, 2025

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Obituary for Nathan "Nate" Geoffrey Ingham

Nathan “Nate” Geoffrey Ingham, 40, of Milton, Massachusetts, passed away on January 8, 2025. He was a loving husband, brother, uncle, dog dad, and a cherished friend to so many. Nate had a remarkable kindness which left an impression on everyone in his life.

Nate was born on December 9, 1984, in Creve Coeur, Missouri to Geoff and Kathy Ingham. Though he spent his early years in Missouri and later Michigan, the family had deep New England roots, and they moved back to Pawcatuck, Connecticut when Nate was 13.

Nate was a seriously impressive individual and achieved success at whatever he put his mind to. He graduated from Boston College summa cum laude and went on to study law at BC. He was a top student and senior editor of the Boston College Law Review. While law wasn’t ultimately his calling, he found a career as a real estate agent, allowing him to focus on connecting with people, building relationships, and helping others achieve their dreams which he loved. Nate’s warmth, sharp intellect, and genuine care for those around him made him not only a trusted professional but also a friend to many of his clients. He had a way of making people feel heard, valued, and understood, which was reflected in every interaction he had.

Nate was an avid consumer of culture. He could seemingly recall the names of any actor and cite which films or shows they were ever in. He was his dogs’ (Celery and Dorit) favorite person, and he loved spending time at home cuddled up or taking long walks with them. He was an amazing gift-giver, always seeming to find the perfect way to surprise and delight each recipient of his generosity. There are countless other qualities and quirks that made him the extraordinary person he was —too many to list—but anyone who knew Nate will surely have their own stories and memories that reflect the unique and irreplaceable light he brought into their lives.

Nate recently battled with depression, which he confronted with so much courage and resilience. While these challenges ultimately overwhelmed him, they in no way define his story or diminish the profound love, joy, and impact he brought to the lives of everyone who knew him.

Nate is survived by his husband, Robert Gamble, of Milton, MA; his sister, Jackie, her partner, Michael, and their baby son, Owen, all of Pawcatuck, CT; and his brother, David, and sister-in-law, Laurie, of Marshfield, MA. He also leaves behind his beloved dogs, as well as countless friends, colleagues, and extended family who will forever cherish his memory.

A celebration of Nate’s life will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to The Trevor Project, Attn: Development, PO Box 69232, West Hollywood CA, 90069. Through sharing Nate’s story, his family wishes to inspire a legacy of compassion and care for those navigating life’s challenges.

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  • January 13, 2025

    This breaks my heart. Nate moved to Pawcatuck, CT in 8th grade, the same year I joined the class. We lived less than a mile apart, and I'd take the bus to his house to "do homework," which, let's be honest, mostly meant coming up with unnecessarily complicated ways to cheat on tests and blasting Christina Aguilera on repeat. I was in love with Nate. He probably knew, but he was kind enough to pretend he didn't. That was Nate—graceful, magnetic, and so good at making everyone feel like they mattered. My first trip to NYC was with Nate and his parents. I still remember how he handed me a rose from a street vendor with a quiet, sincere sweetness that felt so rare. He had a way of making the ordinary feel unforgettable. I hate that we lost touch. When I saw Nate's sister at my brother's wedding last year, I promised myself I'd reach out to him. But I didn't. That will always haunt me. Nate wasn't just a friend—he was the kind of person who made your life brighter, fuller, and funnier. Losing him feels like losing a part of my own history. I'll carry his light with me forever. Lydia Hall

  • January 12, 2025

    God bless you Nate. I'm sure Brian greeted you at those pearly gates!

  • January 12, 2025

    I met Nate when he came to work at the law firm at which I was a partner. Although his tenure at the firm was brief - he didn't like practicing law - his work was excellent, and he was a thoughtful, spirited participant in the cases we worked on together. I was very sorry to see such a talented associate leave after such a short time, but he knew what he wanted to do. After Nate established himself in real estate, he sold a house for me and helped me buy a new one - and throughout, and after, he was warm, lovely, enthusiastic, and supportive. I remember Nate stopping by my new house with a giant basketful of great things to eat from Formaggio shortly after I moved. Nate was a thoughtful and entertaining conversationalist. He was also a shrewd analyst of real estate trends and willing to help me think through property-related issues whenever I had them. I am stunned to think that I have had my last conversation with him. I am so sad for Nate's husband, siblings, and other family and friends. What a terrible loss, what a wonderful person he was!

  • January 12, 2025

    I'm heartbroken over the loss of the kindest, sweetest, most loving human, Nate. He always had a huge smile and a big hug ready every time I saw him, and his warmth was truly contagious. I will always cherish the fun-filled nights in Ptown and Boston, and especially the recent Vegas trip—those moments were full of laughter, joy, and lightness, and they'll forever hold a special place in my heart. Sending love and strength to everyone who is grieving this immense loss. Nate, you were so deeply loved, and you will be missed more than words can express.

  • January 12, 2025

    Nate was a special and kind man. He helped my husband and I buy our first, and then second, houses — and was a steady hand during the entire process. We all lived in Milton together and, when we'd bump into each other around town, we'd always make plans to make plans. Now we can't. How I wish we would have. Nate will be sorely missed.

  • January 12, 2025

    Nate was my older sister's best friend in high school, and my very first crush as a six year old. With such an age gap between siblings, it would've been easy for a high school boy to avoid or ignore a friends' much younger sibling, but Nate always greeted my brother and I with incredible warmth. He brought us presents, like the stuffed dog I named Brownie, now over 20 years old, tattered by love, and sans ears from an unfortunate battle with our real life dog, Blue. His kindness and humor were a magnet to anyone who met him, and even later in life, he was someone who never stopped sharing his warmth. With years between our last interaction, Nate welcomed the chance to speak to 18 year old me about his experiences with law school as I debated entering the field. He spent an hour or more on the phone with me, walking me through the process, his honest opinions, and speaking with me as a peer - all of this in spite of the fact that we hadn't spoken for close to a decade. It was a memory I cherish, and a conversation that helped set me on the path to my current career in public relations. Another five years went by, and I learned of Nate's annual trips with his sister Jackie to Salem, MA. One of my favorite places, I again reached out to him, this time for recommendations and he instantly and joyously shared his favorite places, top sights, and best restaurants. I'll treasure the chance we had to meet in Salem in 2021, although the train pulled me away too quickly. His eyes lit up, and he pulled me into a warm hug like we were the best of friends. Nate always made me feel like a close friend, like someone who he had spoken with just yesterday, no matter how long it had been. This was the kind of warmth Nate shared with almost everyone in his life, a bright light our world will sorely miss. We are all better off for having known him, whether our memories stretch over years or just a few days. He and his family have all my love, and I wish him nothing but the peace he so deeply deserves.

  • January 12, 2025

    Our heartfelt condolences as we remember Nate and the light he radiated. We are grateful to have known him and to the friendship, love and care he gave so generously. I recall the all night high school graduation party that his mom and I chaperoned- the friend group Nate had moved as a collective as they celebrated and did not seem to tire! Loving prayers to you, Nate and your family.

  • January 12, 2025

    We are so sorry to learn of Nate's passing. He was part of our lives for many years and know him to be a remarkable, loving young man. A great loss for all of us who knew him. Our condolences to the whole family.

  • January 12, 2025

    I only had the pleasure of meeting Nate one weekend but clearly felt what a caring, charismatic and sweet man he was. I am broken-hearted for his family and friends at the loss of Nate. This was a brave and beautiful tribute. Susan Fernald

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