Melissa Jane Cotter

January 22, 1969 - July 05, 2023

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Obituary for Melissa Jane Cotter

Melissa Jane Cotter, of Weymouth passed away on July 5, 2023 at the age of 54. She spent her childhood in Braintree, Stoughton and Block Island. She was the daughter of the late Anne and Paul Cotter of Milton. She is survived by her son Kyle Wagner, her siblings Paul, Julie, Chris, Amy, and Tim, and their families, as well as several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. She is also survived by longtime companion and friend Bob Wilde.

Melissa will be remembered for her affectionate smile, love for her family, her great sense of humor and unwavering compassion for those in need. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Agatha Church, 432 Adams St., MILTON, Wednesday, July 26 at 10:30 AM. Interment immediately following at Milton Cemetery. Relatives and friends are invited to attend.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Melissa’s memory to the Marine Corps Scholarship Foundation https://www.mcsf.org/

Services

26 Jul

Mass of Christian Burial

10:30 AM

Saint Agatha Church 432 Adams Street Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions »
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  • November 15, 2023

    James Alexander

    Dear Paul, Julie, Chris, Amy, and Tim--I only recently found out of Melissa's passing. Please accept my deepest condolences and prayers. I remember as children, both in your Stoughton and BI homes, we would would all get into some type of mischief and fun.....especially with the McNamara family. I pray for your that time will ease the sadness and pain for your loss. Growing up on West Street with your family was fun -James Alexander

  • July 23, 2023

    Goodman

    My memories of Melissa were at your parents home on the Island. She would always be feeding your mom her yogurt. She was loving and caring. We are so sorry for your loss. We hope she is at peace now. May she rest now with your loving parents by her side. xx

  • July 20, 2023

    Karen Fogerty

    Dear Paul, Julie, Chris, Amy, and Tim – Holding you all close as you mourn your dear, sweet sister Melissa and process this terrible loss. I've been thinking about her and all of you so much. I remember being a kid at family parties and looking up at Melissa as the glamorous, mischievous, "older/big kid" cousin who was always so friendly and fun to be around. And even though we didn't see each other often, Melissa always greeted me (and my family) as if no time had passed at all—giving big hugs, sharing hilarious stories, and picking up as if we had just seen each other. She was one-of-a-kind and full of love. I am sorry I won't be with you in person for Melissa's services. Please know I am thinking of you all and sending lots of love. -Karen Fogerty

  • July 19, 2023

    Barbara Ceven

    I am so sorry to hear this news. Melissa and I were good friends back in the North Elementary School days. I'll never forget her taking me for my first horse ride on her horse Mariah(?), ... we both got bucked off! Many fun memories. Such sad news. Rest in peace, Melissa.

  • July 17, 2023

    Billy Cotter

    My condolences to all of Melissa's friends and family. Years ago we ate at Rebecca's, first cousins, but almost strangers. It has been so long since we spent any time together, but the conversation that day was as effortless as any I've ever had with anyone. She was a kind and sensitive person and her passing is quite sad. Billy Cotter