Mary Elizabeth (McPherson) Grout

March 18, 1955 - December 26, 2023

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Obituary for Mary Elizabeth (McPherson) Grout

Mary E. (McPherson) Grout, beloved wife of William Grout for 47 years, passed away on December 26, 2023, at the age of 68. She is survived by her adoring and devoted husband, William and their three children, Alyson Zukowski and her husband Michael, of Milton, Joanne Mylett, of Dorchester, and William Grout and his wife Shioban, of Abington. Mary was a beloved grandmother to her seven grandchildren, Ryan, Emily, and Michael Zukowski, Michael and Matthew Mylett, and Rose and Joy Grout. Devoted daughter of the late John and Ethel (Tobin) McPherson, of Dorchester. Loving sister of John (Jack) McPherson and his wife, Oz, of Punta Gorda, Florida, William (Bill) McPherson and his wife, Louise, of Abington, Robert (Bob) McPherson and his wife, Judy, of Ashland, NH, the late Patricia McInnis and her late husband James, Joanne Dooley and her late husband, James, of Dorchester, the late Michael McPherson, Theresa Burnley and her husband Christopher, of Amherst, NH, Kathleen Stern and her husband Allan, of Sharon, MA, and Christine Donovan and her husband Michael, of Newburyport, MA. Cherished aunt to many nieces and nephews. Loyal and caring friend to countless others.

Born on March 18, 1955, in Boston, Massachusetts, Mary lived a life rich in love and compassion. She grew up and raised her family in the neighborhoods of Dorchester where she lived until she retired to Middleboro, Massachusetts, with her husband in 2015.

Mary was a loving wife, celebrating 47 years of marriage with her devoted husband, Bill, this past August. For fifty three years they walked side by side, nurturing and supporting one another. It was the simple things, like their shared love of music, watching sports, hanging on the corner with friends and making regular visits to Pizzeria Regina that solidified their love. Their enduring partnership served as an inspiration to all who knew them, a testament to the strength of commitment and unwavering love.

As a dedicated mother of three, Mary poured her heart into nurturing and guiding her children, creating a home filled with warmth and laughter. Her presence so often extended beyond the home, as she eagerly embraced various roles in support of her children over the years. She was the coach on the field and the cheerleader in the stands. Lunch mother by day and BINGO worker by night. She was the troop leader, the tutor, the chaperone, the set designer. She was everything to her family.

Mary was a creative soul. As a young girl she was an active member of the St. Ann’s Band. She could often be found with her sketch book, wielding a paintbrush, or enjoying pottery classes. She was an avid reader, puzzle enthusiast, and a connoisseur of movies and TV shows. Her artistic pursuits reflected the depth of her creativity, while her love for literature and entertainment illuminated the diverse facets of her personality.

Mary battled courageously against a rare blood cancer and chronic myeloproliferative disorder for many years. She passed away peacefully, surrounded by family. Mary will be remembered for her boundless love, her dedication to family and friends, and the joy she found in the simple pleasures of life. Her legacy lives on in the hearts of those who had the privilege of knowing her. May she rest in peace.

A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Saint Martin de Porres Parish, Saint Ann Church, 251 Neponset Avenue, Dorchester Friday January 5 at 10:00 AM. Family and friends invited. Visiting hours at Dolan Funeral Home, 460 Granite Avenue, EAST MILTON SQUARE, Thursday January 4 from 4-8 PM.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. Condolences and memories can be shared on the memorial website or at the services. Mary will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.

Services

4 Jan

Visiting Hours

04:00 PM - 08:00 PM

Dolan Funeral Homes and Cremation Services - EAST MILTON SQUARE 460 Granite Avenue Milton, MA 02186 Get Directions Β»
5 Jan

Funeral Mass

10:00 AM

Saint Ann Church 251 Neponset Avenue Dorchester, MA 02122 Get Directions Β»
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  • January 05, 2024

    I was very sorry to hear this. I knew Mary Beth in high school and she is someone you just don't forget no matter how many years it has been. I will always remember her as that fun loving girl who was loved by so many! Condolences to her family Kathie (Sheehan) Lydon

  • January 04, 2024

    Didn't know Mary that long, but when we had to find Cheyenne a new home because she didn't like our cat there was no better two people than Mary & Billy to take her and the best part is she lives at Oak Point. I am sorry she didn't have more time with Chey, but we know how much she means to Billy. Lovely lady, rest in peace Bill & Judy Burns

  • January 02, 2024

    We were so young in HS (Cardinal Cushing)! As you were then you will always be. Always a beautiful smile, loyal, fun to be around, ....a friend. You will be forever in my memory. We were together many years but parted as our lives took separate paths. I have never forgot the young girls we once were and am grateful to have had you in my life then. I'm so sorry for the loss of you to your family and friends, but they too were blessed to have you in their lives I can only imagine that you have left a lasting footprint in all those who have known you Mary Beth Billy I can't imagine your loss but I am sincerely sorry for such a profound loss. Barbara Jean

  • January 02, 2024

    So sorry for your loss. Marybeth was a force to behold. I have many fond memories of her from our years at Cardinal Cushing High. Prayers to the family. Patty (Gill) Bosco.

  • January 02, 2024

    When I was a teacher at Saint Ann School, I had the privilege, and the pleasure of meeting the Grout Family. Mrs. Grout was a blessing to the people whose lives she touched. She has a special place in many hearts, and so she will never be forgotten. Patricia. Kelley

  • January 02, 2024

    Dear Billy and family, I am so sorry for your loss of Mary Beth. I will always remember her beautiful smile and the two of you as high school sweethearts. May she rest in eternal peace.πŸ™β€οΈ Ann (Feeney) Joyce

  • December 30, 2023

    Sincere sympathy to the Grout Family Kevin and Ellen Sampson

  • December 30, 2023

    Billy so sorry for your loss sending prayers Marshall Robbins

  • December 29, 2023

    Billy and family, I'm very sorry to hear of MaryBeths passing. She was a very kind person. May she RIP.

  • December 28, 2023

    Billy & family, Sorry to hear about the passing of Mary. She was beautiful inside and out. Masy (Reardon) Long

  • December 28, 2023

    We are very sorry to hear about your loss. May she rest in peace. πŸ•―πŸ™ Wally and Lioba

  • December 28, 2023

    God bless, such a nice person